Today I was sent an email from a group I belong to called Start Up Biz and asked to comment on Success. I did so and felt that the comments I made were worth sharing with a wider readership and so I will add them to this post.
Success is of course a very personal thing, and we all will have our own individual beliefs and explanations of what success is or what success means to us. to many it is a well paid job, to others a warm home and company, and yet again to another coming first in a race or a sporting event.
I hope you will enjoy my words on sucess
Definition of Success
I have read with interest the comments on success on the site and I will share my thoughts with you also.
As a practitioner with a serious involvement in Genetic Ancestral Cellular Memory, I have looked at success and failure from many angles, and many differentials of thought and idea.
Many of my Vibrational sounds CD programs have as their basis a program I have created called Communication . The Vibrational sound Communication is based on Fear of Failure/ Fear of Success as many more clients have presented over the years with a Fear of Success than with a Fear of Failure.
So where does that Fear of Success come from?
As a Natural / Alternative therapist and in many instances a researcher, I have long held the belief that all healing is self healing, and that therapists merely provide the means, or the tools to heal ourselves.
The Vibrational sounds I create, known as The Sounds from Source are such a tool. They are designed to assist you with your own self healing. They are not a magical fix all even though at times their effects may appear magical, they simply are sounds which heal.
The Sounds from Source are based on the fact that I believe that every cell in your body retains memory, and that memory is not just some obscure area of the brain that we access when we want to remember something.
Much thought and research has gone into this belief, and I will cite to you the issues of scars on the body. As we know every thing in our body replace itself over a regular time frame, skin, hair, bones etc, including each individual cell.
Now if the cells did not retain memory then why would they keep replacing themselves in a scarred version, why not replace themselves with new undamaged cells?
We are conceived from one single cell, and that cell multiplies and separate’s many times to create the body that we see today, becoming heat cells, skin cells, big toe cells and so on. Now each of those cells retains the memory to become a whole unique body, look at cloning for example.
My belief is also that the thoughts, feelings and programs from our ancestors are also retained in our cellular structure from that very first cell.
We are told that at conception we gain half or fifty percent of our “personality” from our parents, and half or 50 percent of the remaining half from our Grandparents etc, on down the genetic family line, so let us have a look at that
50% of a half = 2 Parents
50% of a half = 8 Grandparents
50% of a half = 16 Great Grandparents
50% of a half = 32 Great Great Grandparents
50% of a half = 64 Great Great Great Grandparents
50% of a half = 128 Great Great Great Great Grandparents and so on,
Now this is just looking six [6] generations deep, and there are often more and more layers beneath those six generations.
How did your ancestors feel about Success and Failure?
Some cultures applaud their success stories and give them almost hero / heroine status, the USA is a good example of this , others and Australia I believe is a perfect example comes more from the “Tall Poppy Syndrome” and will willingly take a ‘pot shot’ at anyone sticking their head up above the crowd, which may well relate back to Ned Kelly and the Bushranger days., and the good old ‘Aussie Battler’
From my web site
Communication : How this sound came about
During the many years I have worked using Self Empowerment and Regression therapies with my clients I was aware that many more of them had a “Fear of Success” rather than a “Fear of Failure”.
Susan and I spent many long hours discussing this fact and looking at the reasons why this was so, eventually the Communication Sounds were developed to address the deep seated fears we have when placed in situations where we need to communicate.
These can be one on one, in a group, given a deadline to work to, and especially being asked to read aloud.
Comment from Susan - I was working on a project and just couldn’t seem to allow it to happen, as my fear around success was huge. Sheila developed this sound to help me deal with that. Depending upon your own particular issue, you will probably require this sound in conjunction with several others to help you move forward. As you progress, different levels of fears and issues will most probably come up and must be dealt with at that level. I mention this, because for most of us, we continue to strike obstacles or challenges as we progress up the self improvement ladder. Annoying I know, but as long as you continue to move forward in the direction of your choice, then it’s OK – it’s called life.
Now if we look further we find that people may also have a series of other attachments in their lives such as Success and Failure Blueprints, various encoded thought forms which affect their daily lives, ie a sub conscious belief, a hypnotic program, or even an ancient vow of poverty humility chastity and obedience, passed on from a religious order. Or even the seldom spoken about, however very real issue of an ancient or modern curse which may well allow them to be successful and then for that success to be taken away from them.
So Success may well be a very personal thing, for me it was walking unaided, having been told that it would never happen, of rearing a child to adulthood and fatherhood who I was told before his birth that he would be born either dead or so deformed that I would never take him home, and last but not least of the hug ,smile and ‘hello Sheila’ from an Autistic child who’s parent s were told that there was no hope of them ever talking or having a life .
Wishing you all success
Peace Love and Light
Sheila